HUMILITY – Whole School Prayer Resources

The Becket Way Focus – Prudence – Do Not Complain, Think Your Way Through Difficulties

Prudence is using good judgment and wisdom in making decisions people who are prudent do not complain but think their way through difficulties.  For example, there might be times in our lives when we come upon explosive and angry situations: we can react, sometimes without thinking, out of our emotion and create further drama and problems as a result. A prudent person can step back from the moment and use their wisdom to work out the best long term decision and outcome. They ask questions like: How will this affect the relationships with the people around me? Is this the best way to respond? Is this the right way to respond? Will this get me into further problems? A prudent person thinks about the long-term consequences rather than just the short-term emotion e.g. I might want to kick this person because they have upset me, but I’ll be suspended from school and other people might think I’m someone who easily wind up. This can be difficult at times, however people who are more willing to listen to the advice of others, teachers and other adults, are more likely to be able to make more positive decisions. In summary – To be prudent is to make wise decisions for the long-term and not act without thinking. This is hard, because as humans we do sin. If we are humble and recognise our sins, we can start to fight against the sin. By doing this, we can become better AND more successful people.

• Share with your tutor group – Why this is important at The Becket School?  Why can prudence sometime be difficult? Why is it important for their success?
• Incorporate it within your conversation with students during lesson or unstructured time.
• Include in any roll call that week.

Good morning, we invite you to join us in making the Sign of the Cross. In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen

We are in the fourth week of Ordinary Time and the word of the week is Humility!

This week, Mrs Harrison Scott’s Well-being Club have created our Be Inspirational resources. Let’s head over to them now to see what we’re focusing on this week…

Humility is the quality of being humble—having a modest view of your own importance. It means recognising that we all have strengths and weaknesses, and that we are not better than others. Humility helps us to stay grounded, be open to learning, and be kind to others.

When it comes to well-being and mental health, humility plays an important role. By practicing humility, we can reduce feelings of pride, stress, and comparison to others. It helps us build stronger relationships, because we’re more likely to listen, learn, and work together. Humility also allows us to be grateful for what we have, which can increase happiness and improve our mental health by focusing on the positives instead of constantly striving for perfection or comparing ourselves to others.

You are the stars of the future and we want to see you grow. In Matthew’s Gospel it says

“In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”

This verse reminds us that we all have unique gifts and talents, and we are meant to shine and inspire others. However, true humility means recognising that it’s not about seeking attention for ourselves but letting our actions point to something greater—God’s love and guidance. Just like stars light up the night sky without drawing attention to themselves, we can shine by using our gifts in a humble way that helps others and glorifies God. Humility encourages us to use our “light” in a way that uplifts others rather than boosting our own egos.

On your paper star, write or draw all of your wonderful qualities that makes you shine like the star you are. Keep it in your blazer to remind yourself that you are wonderful and you can use your talents to serve others and show humility.

Lord, In our times of need you are always there for us. Help us to recognise your saving hand and give us the strength to help others. We ask this in your Holy name. Amen

We finish this time of prayer together, by making the Sign of the Cross…In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen

We invite you to make the Sign of the Cross. In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen

Today we are going to hear from Louis in year 13. We are going to hear how his family have shown great humility as they have made huge sacrifices to serve our global community. Louis’ uncle lives in Benin, a small country in Africa, and he has sacrificed his life savings to build a school there to give children access to education – amazing and humbling work! Let’s hear from Louis now…

Wow! So inspiring! Here at The Becket we feel called to support this wonderful work. We’ve got big plans for a Lenten fundraiser… but to get us warmed up… Louis and his brother, Martin in year 11, will be holding cake and sweet sales on Wednesday 12^th and Thursday 13^th February (next week!). If you’d like to donate cakes or sweets for the stall we’d really appreciate it! Please bring them to the chapel or to Mrs Conlon’s classroom (C8) on Tuesday 11^th or Wednesday 12^th. If you can’t donate cakes… remember to bring in some money (cash only!)… so that you can buy, eat cake and know that you have helped an incredible cause!

Heavenly Father, We pray for the people of Benin and those who attend Our Lady of Hope school. Give them the hope they need to continue their great work. Give us the strength and resources to assist them in their mission to help them to live their fullest lives. Amen.

We end our prayer with the sign of the cross,
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, Amen.

We invite you to make the Sign of the Cross. In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen

Think of humility like a tree. A tree starts from a tiny seed, and as it grows, it becomes strong and tall, with deep roots that help it stand firm in storms. The more the tree grows, the more it produces leaves, branches, and fruit, but it doesn’t boast about how tall or beautiful it is—it just grows quietly, helping and providing for others along the way. Humility works in the same way. As we grow in our faith and character, we don’t need to boast or show off our strengths. Instead, we humbly use our gifts to serve others and make the world better.

Just like a tree needs good soil, water, and sunlight to grow, we need God’s love, prayer, and guidance to grow in humility. When we practice humility, we’re allowing ourselves to grow into better people—people who are kind, patient, and thoughtful, not seeking attention or glory, but showing God’s love through our actions.

Prayer Journal

In your prayer journal, draw a tree with roots, branches, and leaves. At the top of your page, write the title, “I will show humility by…”

On each leaf or branch, write down one way you can grow to show more humility.

For example:

• Listening more than talking
• Helping others without expecting anything in return
• Saying “thank you” and “sorry” when needed
• Not bragging about my achievements, but giving credit to others and celebrating them

This activity will help remind you of the small ways you can grow in humility every day, just like a tree growing stronger over time.

Holy Spirit, fill us with wisdom and courage to grow in humility. Help our leaves and roots to flourish so that we may live our fullest lives. Amen.

We end with the sign of the cross,  In the name of the Father, and of the Son,

We invite you to make the Sign of the Cross. In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen

Today we’re going to do something using our hands, we’re going to doodle!

Doodling isn’t just about drawing random pictures—it can actually be really good for your mind and your mental health! When you doodle, you’re giving your brain a chance to relax and take a break. It helps you focus, even if you’re feeling stressed or anxious. Doodling can also help you think more clearly, because it allows you to express yourself and release any extra energy or thoughts that might be swirling around in your head.

For mental health, doodling can help you feel calmer and more focused. It can also improve your mood by helping you stay in the present moment, which is a good way to keep your worries from taking over. It’s like when you pray or spend time with God—you get to clear your mind and feel more connected with yourself and with Him.

In fact, when you doodle, you’re also expressing your creativity, which is a gift from God! He created us to be creative, and using that gift, even in simple ways like doodling, can make you feel more joyful and connected to His plan for you.

Listen to some relaxing music and using your doodle sheets let your thoughts flow!

But remember…whilst we love to doodle and all of the benefits that comes with it… never doodle on your school work or school property.

Loving God,
Bring peace to anxious minds and comfort to weary hearts. Grant strength to those struggling, courage to seek help, and the assurance that they are never alone. Surround them with hope, healing, and Your gentle care.

Amen.

We end with the sign of the cross,  In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, Amen.